The Best Places to Meet Women During the Day

A lot of men only see going out at night and online dating platforms as possible ways to meet new women.

That’s because they believe that starting a conversation with a woman in the morning or afternoon is inappropriate and outside of social conventions.

Few men realize that day game (meeting women during the day) is the best type of game if you have the right level of social calibration and don’t come across as obnoxious or creepy.

When approaching women during the day, it’s important to display the right combination of confidence, relaxedness, and respect for the other person.

Behaviors like catcalling and wolf-whistling should be avoided. Instead, it’s important for women to perceive your approach as casual and your attitude as friendly, engaging, and unique in a positive way.

It’s also important not to take yourself too seriously when a woman doesn’t want to talk to you and understand that not all women will be interested in you all the time. Startnumerous conversations and gets to exchange contact with those you actually end up having a great interaction with.

Moreover, a lot of the qualities that usually work less when approaching women in nightlife spots, like friendliness and composure, tend to be much more effective when starting a conversation with a woman during the day.

In this article, we will focus on some of the best locations where you can meet women in the morning or in the afternoon. Don’t forget to register and practice all the tips in real life!

1) At the Park

Parks are a great place to meet new people during the day, especially on the weekend.

Whether you are going to jog, have a picnic or just sit and enjoy nature, get comfortable with the idea that it’s ok to start a conversation with a woman that you don’t know, especially if your approach is respectful and friendly.

This location is particularly effective if you have a dog and you want to strike up a conversation with other dog owners. Your furry little friend will usually make most of the approaching work for you by interacting with the other person’s dog.

All you must do is turn the first interaction into a full conversation.

Parks usually also have small kiosks or bench areas where people tend to chill out and relax. These are also great spots to strike a casual conversation with a lady.

You can ask for information, make a comment about the surroundings or make a comment about the weather, as well as something she is dressing.

It doesn’t matter much what line you use. The crucial element is that way you project yourself.

After chatting a bit, you can ask for her number or social media contact and text her later to check if she wants to meet up.

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2) At Bookstores and Music Stores

Women read books much more than men do. According to one research, around 10% of women read books compared to just 2% of men.

This makes bookstores a great location to meet women when they are doing something they really enjoy.And you cand do it without facing too much competition from other men.

The last is particularly important because in places like bars or clubs, where women are approached by guys all the time, they tend to keep their defenses up, which reduces the likelihood that they will react positively to your opening line.

Bookstores also provide you with plenty of topics you can start a conversation about and immediately create a connection based on common interests.

Asking her what she is reading or what booksin that specific section she would suggest are a great way to start a fruitful conversation.

Instead of being perceived as a creepy guy who’s “hitting on her”, she’ll have a valid reason to interact with you on things she enjoys discussing about.

It’s important to have the right level of social calibration and be respectful when you approach women in a bookstore. Don’t give the impression that you are there with the sole purpose of approaching the ladies.

The same can be said about music stores. Bonding on an artist or song you both like is a great way to start the interaction with a woman and keep it going.

3) Dance Classes

Dance classes or events are a great spot for meeting women because in addition of bonding on a common interest, it makes it easy for her and you to interact on a physical and emotional level before you are even dating.

Many men overlook the importance of feelings and touching when meeting and interacting with women. If your goal is for her to be more than just a friend, this aspect of your“game” is essential.

Dancing provides a lot of opportunities for low-key flirting, playing, humorously bantering, and getting to know a person better. Basically, all the things you must work on to establish ab interaction in a more conventional social contexthappen naturally when you are dancing with somebody.

It’s important that you develop a genuine interest in dancing, instead of just going to dance classes with the intention of “picking up women”.

Such behavior would end up being perceived and possibly exposed, as disrespectful, if not predatory.

You will not date each attractive woman that you’ll meet during your dance lessons, but you will have plenty of chances of bonding with some of them and meet them even outside of that context, whether it’s going for a bite to eat after class or going on a separate date a couple of days later.

4) Meet-Ups and Social Gatherings

MeetUp.com and other similar platforms are used by people to organize and participate to all sorts of events: from random casual meetings to parties to wine tasting events to museum and exhibitions visits.

Attending social gatherings is a great way not only to make new friends in general but also to meet interesting women in a more comfortable social environment.

At these events, approach anxiety is much lower because people literally go there to start conversations with people they have never met before.

These circumstances allow you to focus more on the second part of the interaction: getting to know a woman better, getting an idea of whether she’s interested in you, and exchanging contacts to ask her out on a date.

Keep in mind that social events are attended by many people who are there just to have a friendly chat so it’s very important that you don’t come across as the type of guy who just went there with the sole purpose of meeting girls that he can date at a later stage.

Interact with everybody, make new friends, vibe with the group, and then focus on the woman you like the most and check whether she is dating material.

When done in the right way, social gatherings are one of the most effective ways to meet potential new partners because women tend to be more relaxed and less defensive in a social environment where they think it’s ok to talk to new people.

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5) Waiting Rooms and Waiting in Line

This is one of the situations that guys rarely often consider when thinking of how to get to meet new women, and yet it provides plenty of opportunities.

If you are both waiting in line at the post office or sitting in a room before your appointment with a doctor, starting a conversation can happen very casually and naturally.

People tend to get very bored in these situations and they usually welcome an opportunity to kill time. After all, many women would be more willing to spend that time having a conversation with a friendly, interesting person than reading the usual newspaper or fashion magazines.

You can start the conversation with a comment on the service you are both waiting to receive, or you can take hints from your surroundings.

Many men focus a lot on the specific words or topics to use to kick-start the interaction with a woman. In reality, this is not as important as having the right attitude and being perceived as an interesting and friendly person.

Women are social beings like us and most of them enjoy chatting and interacting with new people. They just don’t like it when that person is coming across as creepy, disrespectful, or obnoxious.

Try to combine friendliness, humor, and wittiness and you have a good chance to start a positive interaction with that woman sitting next to you in your dentist’s waiting room or waiting in line to buy those concert tickets.

6) Shopping Malls

Nowadays, shopping malls aren’t just places where people just go to “buy stuff”. They’re actual micro-cities that offer all types of venues: stores, restaurants, cafés, gyms, and so on.

Many people see the shopping mall as a place to hang out and go for a walk in their free time. Sure, some people will be there just to quickly buy something and leave, but if you pay attention, you will notice that a lot of people are taking it slow and just chilling out while they look at shop windows.

This makes shopping malls a great place where to strike up casual conversations with women. She may be sitting on a bench, trying to choose which restaurant to sit at, or just standing still. Each of these moments is an opportunity to approach her and get to know her.

One way to do so is to ask for generic information. Rather than asking her “Where is Store X?” you can ask her questions such as “Where do you think it’s the best ice cream place here?” or “I am looking for a place to buy a gift for a friend. Do you have any suggestions?”

You’d be surprised to see how many women react positively to approaches like this.

A shopping mall also gives you a lot of opportunities to move the interaction forward after you’ve managed to talk with her for more than just 5 minutes.

Instead of asking for her telephone number or Facebook contact, you can propose to have a coffee at the nearby bar together or check out a fashion store. This is what it’s usually referred to as an “instant date”.

The more she invests in the interaction with you before giving you her contact, the more likely is she to see you again when you text her and ask her to meet up again.

7) On the beach

If you happen to live in a seaside or lakeside area, or if you are visiting such a location for your holidays, the beach is another great place where you can strike up a conversation with a woman.

Beaches are usually places where people go to relax, have fun, and enjoy the weather. This means that women are more likely to be in a positive mood compared in busier and more stressful locations.

It’s wise to avoid being the typical cocky guy you see in the movies. The one who approaches a woman while she is sunbathing.

Trying instead to start a conversation while she is walking on the beach, waiting to order something to drink at the beach’s kiosk, or even chilling in the water.

Activities like beach volley or beach tennis are also great ways to solidify the interaction after you have had the first conversation with her.

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Places and Scenarios to Avoid

While each combination of time and place is unique, some locations and scenarios are usually best avoided when you’re trying to meet women during the day.

The most obvious one is when women are out with a large group of friends, with a man who could easily be his partner or with kids.

While it’s not impossible to successfully approach women in these situations, the number of obstacles you would have to face, as well as the number of factors that can prevent you from having a full conversation after the first approach is obviously too high.

Another location that it’s best to avoid is a place of work or study, especially when she is very focused on her current activity.

Chatting up a new colleague when she’s very busy working on a project or bothering a college student when she’s trying to meet the course’s deadline can be perceived as extremely rude and annoying to the other person.

Finally, it’s better to avoid approaching women that look extremely busy because they are trying to reach a certain location or avoid being late for an appointment.

In such a scenario, an undesired approach by a man (or another woman for that matter) may very well anger her and lead to a very direct rejection and request to leave her alone.